What are you living by?

Is it 1Survival, 2Connection, 3Control, 4Belonging, 5Achievement, 5Understanding, 6Harmonizing or 7Sanctifying? These are different layers of relationship development. Life can be messy for so many reasons. Perhaps one one of them is that people are navigating these layers and trying to find something that works for them but having to navigate all these things can absolutely make life confusing especially if nobody spells it out for you or really even helps much.